Trust

All human relationships either personal or professional are based on trust. Its a strong foundation to nurture and mature a relationship between one another in any walk of life.

All relationships between husband and wife, brother and sister , father and son or daughter , or between employer and employee grow if there is trust among one another and thus become sound and flourish in the long run.

On the other side when trust is broken and differences of opinion occurs than the crack in the relations start drilling in. But differences of opinions are a good sign to build up strong relationship, differences of mind ends
the strongest relations .

      

Signboard.....

Driving back from a long drive I saw a signboard explaining the values of life.It said

Friend, what should I name you???
If I call you ' dream ' it looks difficult.
If I call you ' heart ' it might break .
Okay I shall call you ' breath '
You will be with me till ' death .'      

Journey Of Happiness.

I do not believe , that a person is totally happy, and also a person is only sad and sad. There are people who can laugh, in even if they are sad and in problem, or this kind of people laugh on their sadness.

There are people who have a nature of only complaining . With days sunrise they start their series of complain throughout the day like their ill health, lack of finance , bad relationship with spouse , strained relations with relatives , etc etc.

Where as there are people in spite of series of difficulties on all the fronts in life.They do not bother about the problems but face the situations and accept the situation and think of ways to come out of it.

If your attitude is positive even in the most worst situations, you can find a positive light even in the most wretched conditions in your life.

INSPIRATIONS

A family knit together by bonds of loving co operation and mutual understanding, is a living model of heaven on earth.

Life is like a party , you invite a lot of people,some leave early,some stay,some laugh with you , some with you,some didn't come .   But in the end after the fun,there would be a few who would stay up and help you to clean up the mess with you. And most of the time those were the one who didn't make the mess.


Ego kills Wealth , Propriety and Family if you do not agree look at Ravan , Kansh and Kauravs .

Life is like a roller coaster it has its ups and down, but its your choice to scream or enjoy the ride.  

Stephen Covey no more....

Management Guru Stephen Richards Covey, whose record selling book '' The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People '' won millions of followers worldwide died at the age of 79.. His family members said he had a bicycle accident in Utah, three months ago, when he was cycling downhill wearing a helmet he was knocked down unconscious in Provo, as per the information in the Discreet News of Salt Lake City.

According to his website Covey sold around 20 million books in 38 languages had four books .
1. The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People.
2.The First Things First.
3.Principle Centered Leadership.
4.The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective Families.

He summarises the seven habits .

1.  BE PROACTIVE : Choose your own course.Highly effective people don't dwell on the things they can't do and aren't reactive to outside forces; instead they focus on what they can do and are responsible for their choices and consequences.

2.  BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND : Determine what your end goal is, including your broader life goals,so you know what you are working towards.

3   PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST : Prioritise tasks based on importance,rather than urgency,and make sure your plan drives you towards the goals you outlined in Habit 2 once you have prioritised tasks , execute accordingly.

4   THINK WIN WIN : Aim for solutions that mutually benefit both parties in a relationship.

5   SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THAN TO BE UNDERSTOOD : Try to really  listen to other people and be open to influence which should help them to do the same for you in order to help create a more respectful environment and better solve problems.

6   SYNERGY : Use teamwork to reach goals unattainable by one person working alone.To get the strongest performance out of team players, encourage meaningful contributions and goals.

7  SHARPEN THE SAW : To be more effective over the long haul, make sure to keep your body,mind and spirit fit and refreshed, via exercise, prayer , or meditation , community service and stimulating reading.

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EGO IS CANCEROUS

Human ego is the most dangerous element,which is even more painful than cancer. Nowadays even cancer can be cured,but a person suffering from ego although is alive but,makes his or her life painful and other people also are the victim of his egoist nature. This can destroy a successful marriage,a happy family life and also a successful career.

A person becomes egoist,when he constantly thinks that he is superior to all the other people around. He thinks that he cannot think wrong and all the decisions taken by him are always correct. Now a stage comes when this kind of person cannot accept any right advice or suggestion from other people in spite of knowing that his thinking is wrong This leads to conflicts and differences of opinions with other people. To overcome this negetive side of a human nature one must sportingly expect what is right and wrong and accept the advice and suggestions from others.

HAPPINESS IN WITHIN YOU.

Placing your happiness in the hands of others will lead to a lot of pain and disappointment.We learn from a very young age to rely on others for our food,shelter and other needs,than why not happiness ? The negative side to this logic is that expecting all your happiness from others will give you more pain and disappointment in your life.

When the other persons actions don"t live up to your expectations you feel you are let down. Understand that the other person won"t realise he or she has done an action to cause you pain.

To find happiness which is within yourself analyse your own thoughts or statements that why you are sad "Because he did this" or "She did that". Now think positively from your side the thoughts will come to you "Because I expected this " or Because I wanted that". These are the reasons why we are not happy since we expect happiness from others actions.