EGO IS CANCEROUS

Human ego is the most dangerous element,which is even more painful than cancer. Nowadays even cancer can be cured,but a person suffering from ego although is alive but,makes his or her life painful and other people also are the victim of his egoist nature. This can destroy a successful marriage,a happy family life and also a successful career.

A person becomes egoist,when he constantly thinks that he is superior to all the other people around. He thinks that he cannot think wrong and all the decisions taken by him are always correct. Now a stage comes when this kind of person cannot accept any right advice or suggestion from other people in spite of knowing that his thinking is wrong This leads to conflicts and differences of opinions with other people. To overcome this negetive side of a human nature one must sportingly expect what is right and wrong and accept the advice and suggestions from others.

HAPPINESS IN WITHIN YOU.

Placing your happiness in the hands of others will lead to a lot of pain and disappointment.We learn from a very young age to rely on others for our food,shelter and other needs,than why not happiness ? The negative side to this logic is that expecting all your happiness from others will give you more pain and disappointment in your life.

When the other persons actions don"t live up to your expectations you feel you are let down. Understand that the other person won"t realise he or she has done an action to cause you pain.

To find happiness which is within yourself analyse your own thoughts or statements that why you are sad "Because he did this" or "She did that". Now think positively from your side the thoughts will come to you "Because I expected this " or Because I wanted that". These are the reasons why we are not happy since we expect happiness from others actions.

MONEY

Money is very important in life. To survive and enjoy money is required,but money cannot buy happiness. Nowadays everyone thinks that money is everything can do anything. To be materialistic in the long run only gives back sorrow and one becomes depressed and lonely. Money can ruin relationships in all walks of life.

EXPECTATIONS

Human nature is a selfish identity,it expects much from the people around.One expects appreciation from others in different forms,such as a child expects love from the mother,a wife expects love and affection from the husband,a father expects care from the children,a company expects sales from the salesman.... The list of expectations in different forms of life is unending.

Why one is angry,frustrated,depressed. The only reason is that our expectations are much more from others towards us, and when those are not fulfilled we get angry,tensed,rude towards others. This is the reason given by great saints and learned experienced people all over the world. Just think a normal family man with a wife and a son,expects love and affection from his family. A company wants sales from the salesman to run the business is this wrong ????

Its valid not to expect anything from anyone to be happy,can this work for anyone.